Shownotes

In this episode of Fuck Yeah Friday, Lesley Logan celebrates women who boldly show up with integrity and kindness, from LSU Coach Kim Mulkey’s empowering game-day gestures to community wins that prove how taking action creates momentum. Hear how Mindi and Stacey turned outreach and side hustles into real success, and why Lesley’s personal win is a powerful reminder that protests can build purpose and connection.

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In this episode you will learn about:

• Why Kim Mulkey’s baby gift tradition is bigger than sports.
• How Mindi turned a bold move into business momentum.
• What happened when Stacey took action outside her comfort zone.
• How protesting became Lesley’s unexpected win.

Episode References/Links:

• Kim Mulkey @femalequotient – https://beitpod.com/femalequotient
• Mindi Westfall – https://bendymindipilates.com
• Mindi’s Closet – https://www.instagram.com/mindis_closet

Transcript

Lesley Logan: It’s Fuck Yeah Friday.

Brad Crowell: Fuck yeah.

Lesley Logan: Get ready for some wins.

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Lesley Logan
Welcome to the Be It Till You See It podcast where we talk about taking messy action, knowing that perfect is boring. I’m Lesley Logan, Pilates instructor and fitness business coach. I’ve trained thousands of people around the world and the number one thing I see stopping people from achieving anything is self doubt. My friends, action brings clarity and it’s the antidote to fear. Each week, my guests will bring Bold, Executable, Intrinsic and Targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and Be It Till You See It. It’s a practice, not a perfect. Let’s get started.

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Lesley Logan 0:48
Hi, Be It babe. Hello, happy Fuck Yeah Friday. If this is your first time with Be It Till You See It podcast, hi, I’m Lesley Logan. I’m so happy you’re here. I’m really excited about just, literally, the amazing reviews we’re getting, and how many people who’ve been guests on this pod love this pod, so that flatters me, but that means that you’re here because someone told you about this. And so, thank you for being here. And on Fridays, we keep it light, we keep it bright, we keep it short, and we get to the point, because you have a lot going on, but this is supposed to be just a moment in your week when you just take time to realize what could be wins, what could be inspiring, that there are things out there always happening for us, right?

Lesley Logan 1:24
So I start this off with something that inspired me on the internet, and then I share some wins that you sent in. I share a win of mine, and then I leave you with a mantra. Boom, we got four chapters.

Lesley Logan 1:33
So this particular one that caught my eye, this is actually the second time this one’s caught my eye. Her name is Kim Mulkey. She’s a coach for LSU. You’re probably like, Lesley, I got it. And if you don’t listen to sports, then you might not know. But she got my eye a week ago, and I didn’t put it in the FYFs because it’s kind of just miffed me. But she, you know, she’s talking about how she lost in one of the March Madness things, and she’s like, oh, it’s bad. And he goes, well, yeah, I mean, you lost. And she’s like, well, have you ever made it to Round Eight? And, you know, anything? And he’s like, no. She’s like, well, then sounds like we did pretty much better than you. I just like that she clapped back. So I was like, ah, like, this woman, she’s spicy. Anyways, this came across that she brings baby gifts to every coach on opposing teams that she’s playing against who are expecting. And because ultimately, she believes, like we’re on the same team. And I think it’s so cool that this woman can take a moment outside of the competition to go, I see you mama over there. And here’s a gift from me, because the reality is, is like, all these different women who choose to have children in their life, and they want to do that, and they want to coach, and they want to, at this elite level, they need their team. And so I just think that it’s really cool, and what a badass she is. She claps back at stupid reporter questions, and she takes the time before a game to go and give the opposing coaches, this is like, there’s multiple videos of her doing this, not just one coach, opposing coaches on other teams who are expecting, a baby gift. And I just think that’s cool. You know, I’m not a mama, but I think that’s really amazing.

Lesley Logan 3:00
So now let’s go to some wins of yours. By the way, my team really tries to link in the show notes these posts, if you actually want to see them. They exist. Okay, so from Mindi, Bendy Mindi, and also Mindi’s Closet, she went, Pilates On Tour here in Colorado was an incredible for my clothing biz. Because of that, I will be able to go, be going to the Chicago P.O.T. in October. I love combining my passions and meeting so many wonderful people in the process. Thank you, LL and Brad, for your continued support and encouragement. You guys, it’s really easy to go, oh, that thing that I want to do that could grow my business is actually an investment I can’t afford right now, and be afraid to make that, and then also to make the investment, and go, ooh, I just did it. Only how’s it gonna turn out? But not only did she do it, took her, you know, she felt the fear, and she did it anyway, but she actually had such a success. We’re at a booth right next to her. We got to watch how successful the event was. And as someone that we get to coach, we actually got to talk about, okay, how do you make this win propel you to the next event? And that’s something we work on in Agency, because it’s really easy to go, oh my God, I got all this like, I got this windfall, and then spend it on places before you reinvest in your business. We did this with our flash cards. It was really easy for us to support her on. So we’ll get to have a booth next to her in October in Chicago, and she gets to continue to grow this amazing side business she has. It’s really inspiring to others. I’m actually currently wearing one of her shirts. She actually made it for the OPC team. Look at how cute that is, if you’re watching, how cute that is. So cute. Anyways, go Mindi. So excited.

Lesley Logan 4:25
Let’s get you another win, you guys. This one is from Stacey Extence. She says, my wins after encouragement from LL. I did something I’ve never done, sent a message to people I know in my area via Facebook Messenger. I sent my flyer for a fundraising event I’m doing for CCP, inviting them to join. I got several responses from folks who I wasn’t expecting. I’m receiving their email so I can include them in future announcements. Got my flyer printed and we’ll place it in the studio tomorrow for the fundraiser, and began planning my open house after having a wonderful call with Mindi. I love how community works together, you guys. Received some great advice and ideas to base my open house on, had my annual mammogram. Woohoo for self-care. One new client who’s been attending my beginner series weekly is new to Pilate and is loving it. She messages after each class letting me know how thankful she is for giving Pilates a try. She also wants to stick with my classes. And one new beginner, semi-private client, was the only person in class last week. I did a pivot during the session because of her tight hamstrings. I proved my knowledge about the session by focusing on strengthening and lengthening her back line. At the end of the class, she inquired about privates, hoping I can talk her into adding those into her schedule. Woohoo. I love that you did that pivot so that she could see the power of what can happen when things are tailored to her. I love that you call your annual mammogram a win because it is. Ladies, we gotta do these things. Thank you for reminding me to set mine up. I also would like to just say, like way to do the thing that feels weird. You DM people you didn’t know. You email people you didn’t know. These are the things that people don’t do because they get scared of it, and you did it. And I promise you, even if those people don’t return those emails, you’re, you’re telling the energy around you. I am accepting new clients. Look at the space I’m creating, look at what I’m doing to tell people who I am and what I rock at. So Stacey, that does work itself out, I promise you, it always, always does. It works in like, mysterious ways, which I love. Thank you for sharing, ladies.

Lesley Logan 6:14
All right, a win of mine. So actually, this is a really fun one. I was just talking to Brad before I got to record this, and I was like, okay, I need some wins. And one of the wins that we wanted to share with you guys is that we have been protesting and having fun doing it. We don’t have control over what the dickheads are doing in this planet that are fucking with like everything and excuse my language, but even if you don’t agree with me on a lot of things, I think what we can agree with is I’m worried about my parents retirement. I’m worried about my family’s retirement. I’m worried about that, right? Like I’m worried, I’m not worried about mine, because I’m not retiring anytime soon, but I’m worried about the people who it affects right now. And I can call and I can email and I can bitch and I can moan, or I could do something, and what I can do is on a Saturday protest, and so we actually went to our first protest in April, and it was really fun, and we’ve been doing it ever since, and it feels good. I highly recommend finding a protest near you, because it feels good to shout out the thing that is like pissing you off and to be around people who are also equally pissed off, but more importantly, not in a way that you’re just like being Debbie Downers and just being negative, like actually doing something about it, because we can’t take them out of their jobs. So what can we do? And it’s really important, because it’s helping people feel so seen people who don’t have the ability to protest, people who who are being affected like they are, like seeing people fight for them, and that gives them hope. And I think it’s really cool. Also, we told people we’re protesting, and we ran into other people who we know, who we didn’t know were going to be there. So we end up having a wonderful afternoon, spending time with our friends, who are all usually too busy to see, doing something that didn’t cost us anything but our time, right? It didn’t cost us money. We had to buy a ticket. We didn’t have to go to a fancy dinner. We actually got to walk around a neighborhood, really bring attention to things that are bothering us. And so I am so excited that we got to do that, because it just felt like, you know, in 2016 when these were happening, I was traveling so much, I didn’t get to participate in that. And then I remember when these were coming up, I was like, I don’t even know how to do this. Like, where do I go? So I was doing a lot of research on, like, what to bring to a protest. What can you say? All these different things. And I highly recommend reading those accounts if you want to do it. But I will just say, if you are feeling like you don’t have community, find a protest, you will immediately feel like you have it. It was so good. And that is my win.

Lesley Logan 8:21
Okay. Your mantra. I seek out mystery in the ordinary. I seek out mystery in the ordinary. I seek out mystery in the ordinary. You guys, you probably are like my days are boring. No, seek, like, be curious about that. There’s probably something new you never even knew was there. Thank you so much for being you. Thank you for listening to this podcast. You are part of its growth and its success, but the more it succeeds, the more it means we can bring to you to support you on your journey of being the person you want to be before waiting for someone to deem you. At this podcast, we do not wait for someone to deem us ready, we act as if we are and we do it scared, we take messy action and we celebrate the wins we have big and small, right? We celebrate them big and small. And so thank you so much for being a listener, and until next time, Be It Till You See It.

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Lesley Logan
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Lesley Logan
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Brad Crowell
It’s written, filmed and recorded by your host, Lesley Logan and me, Brad Crowell.

Lesley Logan
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Brad Crowell
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Lesley Logan
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Brad Crowell
Also to Angelina Herico for adding all of our content to our website. And finally to Meridith Root for keeping us all on point and on time.