You Too Are Allowed
to Be Busy

Ep. 696 FYF with Lesley Logan

Ep 696: You Too Are Allowed to Be Busy (FYF with Lesley Logan)  | Be It Till You See It

I actually just have boundaries in place to protect my energy levels.

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In this Fuck Yeah Friday episode, Lesley Logan pushes back on the assumption that looking busy means being unavailable, reframing healthy boundaries as a deliberate way to protect personal energy. She shares a proud team win from an intense season, celebrates listener milestones, and reminds new Pilates instructors that being a beginner is worth honoring, not hiding. The episode wraps with a grounding mantra to carry into the week ahead.

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In this episode you will learn about:

  • Lesley unpacks her annoyance at being told she’s so busy.
  • The boundaries behind the busy: her time, on her schedule.
  • A team win from one of their most chaotic seasons.
  • Community wins, from CEO-time checklists to month-two milestones.
  • The beginner-not-imposter reframe every new instructor needs to hear.

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Lesley Logan: It’s Fuck Yeah Friday.

Brad Crowell: Fuck yeah.

Lesley Logan: Get ready for some wins.

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Lesley Logan 0:02
Get ready for some wins. Welcome to the Be It Till You See It podcast where we talk about taking messy action, knowing that perfect is boring. I’m Lesley Logan, Pilates instructor and fitness business coach. I’ve trained thousands of people around the world and the number one thing I see stopping people from achieving anything is self-doubt. My friends, action brings clarity and it’s the antidote to fear. Each week, my guest will bring bold, executable, intrinsic and targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and Be It Till You See It. It’s a practice, not a perfect. Let’s get started.

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Lesley Logan 0:48
Hello, Be It babe. How are you? Welcome to the Fuck Yeah Friday episode. These quick and dirty fun episodes, Brad said he’s going to join me on them, and he will at some point. I think. They’ll still be quick and dirty, but they’re fun because we’re just bringing a thing that we do from our communities into this, which is just that, instead of saying what inspired me from the internet this week, because the internet has been non-inspiring. Oh my god, I’ve made my algorithms just mostly beautiful nail designs, but somehow stupid shit keeps coming through. So we’re keeping things light and fun, and if you’re in our Agency community, which is where we business coach Pilates, instructors, or our eLevate community, which is where our internship program members are, then you will have this channel where you can complain about something that happened that day, and then you have to have a win immediately. So, since we already do wins here, just figured I’d also get to complain too, but I’ll have a win afterwards. And you can send in your “I need a moment” and your win, but make sure you send in both, or just a win, because if you just send an “I need a moment,” we will delete it. Okay.

Lesley Logan 1:52
All right, so my moment is this, okay? I really don’t like how people like to tell you how busy you are, because one, then I have to explain to them that I appear to be very busy, but I actually just have boundaries in place to protect my energy levels. And I love sharing that in a podcast format in a way that can help educate and give permission to people, but when it’s a one-on-one situation, usually the people who are saying it are the ones who are kind of a little upset that they don’t have you at their beck and call. And it’s not that you don’t have me, like you can’t have me, you can absolutely have my attention and my time and my things, I just have boundaries for when that is due, when that can happen. And it’s a little annoying because it makes when you say like, “Oh, you’re so busy,” it’s like I’m in control of my day, my love. And so I guess my moment that I’m just, it’s like I’m tired of people telling me how busy I am when I’m actually just organized and have boundaries in place, healthy ones. And sometimes I move them to do some things, and sometimes I can’t move them to do some things, but I’m certainly not going to just move things around just so I’m available during the times that people want at their convenience, because it’s not convenient for me. And guess what, you too are allowed to be busy, in air quotes, and have boundaries, and organized chaos, and then I have to fit myself into there, right? Like, we all get to do this, it’s not just about me, we all can be like this. So that’s what I’m a little irritated by this week, because I’m just tired of hearing it, and I’m tired of it being directed at like as if I don’t want to spend time with someone, or I’m an asshole. No, no, I just know how much energy it takes to be me throughout the day, and I want to be me when you’re with me. That’s what I want.

Lesley Logan 3:33
So, my win, you know, this win is going to be a bit of a team win, but I’m just really proud of our team. In the last couple of months, we’ve had a lot going on. We had a five-day website-not-working thing. We had one of our major team members end up needing to go into a hospital because of what’s going on with their pregnancy. And then we had Brad and I gone for a month, and we had spring training, and we had the announcement of summer tour, and blah blah blah. And I will just say, like, while nothing went as planned, everything is going better, and I’m just really proud of the team and myself, like just really kind of sticking to the vision and the values, and sharing the wins with each other, and complimenting each other, and supporting each other, and stepping up for each other, and doing the best we can while we’re down a person while they’re on their amazing maternity leave. And I’m proud to say that, like, the wheels are still on the bus, the ship is still set to sail, and things are still going, and you really learn a lot about what is possible and what is going right, and what systems do you have in place. And instead of going, “Oh, what, we don’t have a system for that?” it’s like, “Oh wait, what happened?” Oh, just like just keeping their attitude and head on straight. And it’s just, you know, so our win as a team is that, you know, six years of growing this team and putting systems in place have allowed us to be in a very intense season with a little bit more polite juggling than we want with one less person, but we’re doing it and proud of us. And you know, this too shall pass, because that person’s maternity leave won’t be forever. Thank God. And I know we’ll just celebrate when they come back, but I’m just really proud of what we’ve done. So that’s my win.

Lesley Logan 5:09
So now yours, you send them in to me. You can send them in to beitpod.com/questions. You can DM me on Instagram. Here we go. @on_point_pilates_studio has a couple, so personal practice has been strong, outside daily sunshine, and trained with my mentor on a one-to-one, and took a class, check, check. Admin wins: got a newsletter and a text blast out, submitted payroll to workers’ comp, up to date. You know, it’s nice when you get to do things for yourself, and you can check all the boxes of your CEO time. Way to go, Amanda. It was so fun to have you at the Pilates retreat as well, and I love that you are celebrating wins, both personal and professional. @_mariedecurtis: closed up my second month as a Pilates instructor. It still feels unreal, like a dream. Oh my god, I love that you’re celebrating two months. I love it. I just had somebody Slack and say, “Well, I’ve only been teaching a little bit, so I feel like such an imposter,” and it’s like, yeah, because you’re a beginner. You’re not an imposter, you’re just a beginner, and you should be a beginner, and a lot of us should be a beginner, and that will allow you to help your clients be beginners. And why is it bad to be a beginner? Not. So, congratulations, congratulations on your two months as a Pilates instructor. Thank you for letting us celebrate that with you.

Lesley Logan 6:22
And now let’s get a mantra for you to close out this week: I believe in myself fully. I believe in myself fully. I believe in myself fully. All right, loves, you know what to do until next time. Be it till you see it. Have a good day.

Lesley Logan 6:40
That’s all I got for this episode of the Be It Till You See It Podcast. One thing that would help both myself and future listeners is for you to rate the show and leave a review and follow or subscribe for free wherever you listen to your podcast. Also, make sure to introduce yourself over at the Be It Pod on Instagram. I would love to know more about you. Share this episode with whoever you think needs to hear it. Help us and others Be It Till You See It. Have an awesome day. Be It Till You See It is a production of The Bloom Podcast Network. If you want to leave us a message or a question that we might read on another episode, you can text us at +1-310-905-5534 or send a DM on Instagram @BeItPod.

 

Brad Crowell
It’s written, filmed and recorded by your host, Lesley Logan and me, Brad Crowell.

Lesley Logan
It is transcribed, produced and edited by the epic team at Disenyo.co.

Brad Crowell
Our theme music is by Ali at Apex Production Music and our branding by designer and artist Gianfranco Cioffi.

Lesley Logan
Special thanks to Melissa Solomon for creating our visuals.

Brad Crowell
Also to Angelina Herico for adding all of our content to our website. And finally to Meridith Root for keeping us all on point and on time.

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